A Little More Personal (Issue 1170)

In which we are reminded to be… you know…. a little more personal.

Two months ago, a good friend underwent back surgery. Her experience reminded me of another friend’s story. We were sitting in his family room,  mid-way through the crackers and cheese when other friend said, “…and after we come back from our September trip, I’m planning to have shoulder surgery.”

“Wow, that’s a lot of news,” I replied. “What’s going on?”

There followed a history of minor insults, injuries, weakness, and pain. [If we’d added a dog, a truck, some rain, and a whiskey, there was enough there for a good country music song.]

“How long will you recover?”

“About six months. The idea is: I have surgery in October and I play golf again in the Spring.”

“Very strategic,” I admired. “Who’ll do the work?”

“’I’ve talked to four surgeons,” he replied. “All considered ‘top notch’ in this procedure. They all talked about non-surgical options but I think we’re beyond those now. Each of their surgical strategies is a little different and their recovery time projections varied by a few weeks.”

“So, you picked the one with the shortest recovery time?”

“Actually, not. Three of the surgeons were all business. You know, it was ‘Hello, I’m Dr. So-and-so…X-rays… impingement… bone spur…open …cut … smooth … suture … close….done …physical therapy.”

“What did you think?”

“It’s hard to understand the differences between them and I think they’re all very good.”

“And the fourth surgeon?”

“That’s an interesting question,” he said. “Equally well regarded yet she’s the one I’ve chosen because…. When we met, she smiled, introduced herself, and said, ‘I know we’re here to talk about your shoulder and we will and, before we do that, I’d love to hear about you. Tell me how YOU are.’”

 

Nick Miller and Clarity train banks and bankers to attract and develop deeper relationships with small businesses. Many more Sales Thoughts like this and a host of other articles and resources at https://clarityadvantage.com/knowledge-center/ .

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