In which we’re guided to ask opening questions that penetrate more deeply. When I return to the house after my vigorous “cutlass in teeth” romp at the office, my family members ask about my day. One typically asks, “How was your day?” The other, ” What did you work on today?” Would you answer those … Read more »
In which we are reminded that we can control and modify our personal brands. At the end of a dinner, I watched my companions sign their credit card slips. Read more »
In which we remind ourselves that sales people are (usually) not competing against the clock during sales conversations. While channel surfing the other night I came to a rodeo tie-down roping contest, a.k.a. calf roping. Very exciting! At a given signal the calf bolts from its pen, dashing straight down the middle of the ring. Read more »
In which we propose collaborating as an alternative to overcoming. Teenager standing in kitchen. 9:00 pm. Car keys in hand. Preparing to go out with friends. Parent: “No, it’ll keep you out too late.” Teenager: “No, it won’t. I don’t have to be at work tomorrow until 9:00; I can sleep later in the morning.” Read more »
In which we’re encouraged to ask for referrals based on the problems we solve rather than our products. “Can you introduce me to some people?” Read more »
In which we discuss strategies for obtaining a larger share of the high margin business. “Hey, why can’t I have that? … Why did he get so much more than I did?…. That’s not fair!” Sound familiar? Ever said those words or had those thoughts as a child or as an adult? Read more »
In which we are encouraged to define target prospects more carefully for referral sources. Our rainy summer in New England this year reminds me of the year I took my children to Cape Cod for a week. Yes, it rained that week, too, and when the sun appeared in strength, we decided to head to … Read more »
On the Fourth of July, there is no other city on the planet in which I’d rather be than Boston. Yesterday, sun and warmer temperatures broke a long string of foggy, misty, cool spring days and the city came alive. We met people from Portugal, Russia, and a dozen U.S. states as we participated in … Read more »
In which we learn a technique to deal with dreaded silence and wandering conversation. “I can’t hear very well, so I talk a lot.” Read more »
In which we’re reminded to dig into details when we ask questions. If you were to ask me, “how’s your house?” I would say, “Great…. a couple of creaks and groans and… just fine” However, if you were buying my house, you’d bring your team of inspectors and you’d find a lot to write down … Read more »
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